Today you are getting married. Isn’t that weird? I feel like I woke up five minutes ago and we’re suddenly all grown up. It marks the next stage of your life, creating a new family of your own. It’s a whole new chapter of your life, just beginning.

There was a song ten years ago about sunscreen,

Be nice to your siblings, they’re your best link to your past
And the people most likely to stick with you in the future

I haven’t been very nice to you, in the past. You haven’t been very nice to me. If there’s anyone in the World I’ve said “I hate you” to the most, its you my dear I’m afraid – not even our poor Mother although she does come a close second. 

I have pinched you, I have told on you. I have envied you, I have judged you. I have laughed with you, cried with you, drunk obscene quantities of wine with you. I have stuck up for you, I have admired you.

You have been greatest enemy, my dearest little ally.

I consider you often when contemplating having a second child. Are only children lonely? I wouldn’t know. Do they miss out on a lifelong companion, one whose childhood runs parallel with their own? Someone whose coming from the same place they are?

It would have been a terrible thing to not have had a sister, a lot of my memories are your memories. Where I forget, you remember. It’s something that only we can share, you and I.

Thank God I had someone to play with, someone to go on holiday with. Someone to wind up, someone to steal clothes from. It would have been very lonely without you.

I don’t have any good advice I’m afraid, as a wife, as a mother and as a person – I’m still clueless and making it up as I go along. If there’s one thing I’ve learnt about life its that no one actually knows what they are doing, you just have to make choices and hope for the best.

I think you have made great choices and should expect the best.

So lets carry on being nice to each other, and stick with each other in the future. We’ll have our own families, we’ll make different choices, we wont always agree. But I like you, you’re a great friend and this part of your life has just begun. I’m excited for you, for your future.

Congratulations, we all love you very much.

PS. I read your diary once, it was fascinating.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

To My Dearest Little Ally, On Your Wedding Day

7 thoughts on “To My Dearest Little Ally, On Your Wedding Day

  • April 22, 2016 at 11:30 am
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    Congratulations your sister on her wedding day. All the best for the day and for the rest of her life together with her new husband 🙂

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  • April 22, 2016 at 1:47 pm
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    Aww this is lovely, sisters are really important despite everything arnt they

    #picknmix

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  • April 22, 2016 at 6:41 pm
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    I absolutely love this and so hope that my girls have this relationship as they grow. I laughed out loud at your P.S, my brother used to read my diary and then blackmail me over the content!! #fabfridaypost

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  • April 26, 2016 at 7:15 pm
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    Ha I love the fact that you got the diary bit in at the end 😉 Lovely post. I know the dynamics of sisters well I have 4, I grew up with my 2 older sisters and at times we were vile to each other ….. no one else was allowed to be though 😉
    Thanks for linking up to #Picknmix
    Stevie x

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  • April 29, 2016 at 1:35 am
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    Aww… what a lovely send off. I love listening/ reading out people speeches it is such great fun. Nice one sis! 🙂 x

    Thank you for linking up with us on #FabFridayPost

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  • May 7, 2016 at 6:32 am
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    What a lovely message to your sister and I wish her all the best on her big day.

    I grew up with a younger brother and at the time always wanted a sister. Now we’re older I’m doubly blessed for I not only have him and our shared memories, but a wonderful sister in law and a gorgeous niece and nephew.

    I hope you can all look forward to creating many new memories together and with your next generation!

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